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written by Lowla Dee
My name is Dayo. I’m a typical Nigerian guy and I cherish my Fridays a lot; I get to hang out with the sickest guys every Friday night and secondly, It’s another escape from my nagging and boring wife. I get confused sometimes on whether she’s my mother or my wife. Don’t get it twisted; I love her pieces. It just gets complicated; like I wish we never got married…marriage has turned her into something that doesn’t amuse me. I wish she was still the adventurous, charming, high spirited lady I dated for five years.
A lot of people say its unethical for married guys to be found in a club, but I wish everyone won’t be too quick to judge and understand that people look for fun to run away from their problems; they just want to breathe, like me.
I forgot to say that I work in Guarantee Trust Bank along Lekki, I love my job and my job loves me, maybe its because I’m the senior banking officer. Lol. This particular morning, a lady breezed into my office. My heart raced faster because I had not sighted anything this beautiful in a long while. She wasn’t the typical slender Barbie, in fact, she was a bit chubby but her smile, cuteness and…I was tripped.
“Hi Good morning! Your ATM has swallowed my card!” She laughed, unlike a typical customer that would ram you.
I just tried to form Boss laughter…
“Good morning, You know what? I’d personally make sure they get it out for you, but not today. Can you wait till Monday?” I smiled
“GTB shaaa! OK, can I just drop my number so you could call me up or just text when its ready so I don’t come twice? Please? My name is Nancy” She blinked her eyes in a funny way.
“Sure” I smiled
We exchanged numbers. What a lucky Friday!
So it was 10:00pm and I headed to the club…as usual my friends were chilling for me. My wife had called a couple of times, I just ignored it. She knows I’m never home Friday nights.
“Look at you!” I heard someone say. I raised my head and it was the ATM lady-Nancy.
“Wow, look at you too!” I was surprised to see her but I was happy I didn’t have to wait till Monday to see her again.
“Happy Friday!” She screamed because of the noise, “Wanna dance?”
I didn’t even have the chance to answer, she already pulled me to dance floor. I really suck at dancing but she helped me; she was a great dancer! I had fun! At some point we decided to go to a private area and we talked, ranging from work, business to personal life. I tried to hide my ring as much as possible, I certainly didn’t want this to end now.
“You are a really wonderful lady. You are so interesting…any guy would want to be with you all day” I said.
“I wasn’t always like this but I have learned the hard way that life is just too short to be sad” she sang
Then her phone rang…
“Hey baby! Yeah I’m at the private lounge, I’d like you to meet someone…alright boo” she talked excitedly as usual.
I was in shock until this tall handsome man walks up to her and kisses her.
“You were late. Meet Dayo; I met him this morning, he’s helping with your ATM I told you got swallowed and Dayo this is my B to the O-O,” she laughed “Meet my husband Kolade, we only come here to dance every fortnight Friday; away from work, stress and kids.”
“Wow, a pleasure” I managed to shake him
Then she stood now excitedly holding her husband’s arms.
“Why don’t we invite Dayo for Mimi’s 16th birthday tomorrow?” Her husband said
They have kids too? How long have they been married and they look like a couple just dating!
“Silly me, please come for my second daughter’s 16th tomorrow. It would be an honor” She brought out an I.V from her purse.
I began to feel so ashamed of myself…this was another guy like me, getting it right with one woman.
I collected the I.V and promised to be there.
“See you tomorrow! Have you had something to eat Kolade?” she talked and dragged her husband along.
They left and I kept staring at the thin air like I had seen a ghost. They come just to dance together every fortnight Fridays? Why didn’t I think of that! Temi loves to dance…she also likes long walks, she loves to talk…she loves jazz music, there’s this vivid picture I have of me putting her hand on my chest when we danced at a jazz club on our first year anniversary…I found myself typing all the things I knew Temi loved to do on my Ipad and I realized I had denied her of all…I had made her the old woman she acts.
What the hell was I doing here! I didn’t even tell my friends goodbye, I walked out of the club into my Jaguar. Temi’s call came through and I picked at first ring.
“Temi?” My heart raced
“I know you are not coming home…”
“I am, stay up so we can gist. Been a while” I decided to do everything on that list and to even add many more for the rest of my lifetime with her.
“Are you alright?” She was shocked I suppose
“And I’d like us to go for a birthday party tomorrow. I want you to meet this amazing couple”
“You sound different Dayo”
“Maybe I’m different”
“Don’t say it! don’t say it! when you come we will gist very well” she laughed
She laughed!!! In just that laughter that I hadn’t heard in a while, she sounded like the lady I married six years ago…
Dear reader, I wrote this natural piece just to remind us that creating memorable moments with our partner matters. Do you know that little things are the sweetest things? Just creating time to gist and laugh with your partner, having a day in the week that’s exclusively for you both-No friends or kids allowed. Lady, when last have you told your partner he is so darn hot? Guy! When last have you told your lady she is the sweetest thing? When last have you whispered ‘Thank you’? When last have you been quick to say ‘I’m sorry’? Do you even have a clue on what your partner loves to do? When you ignore little things, they are the little pieces of rocks that build up to become a mountain you can’t easily break down. Pay attention to little things, believe that they work and experience new bliss! Yours Truly, Lowla Dee.
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56 Comments
Wowwwww! Lowla this is a nice piece! I enjoyed every bit.
WoW! Super great piece! I so want to be likee nancy nd ha boo! Its very possible! B.T.W. I want to be dat hot too after over 16 yrs of marraige*…..great piece as usual!
I love this piece soooooooooo much. God bloess you!!!
Noce piece dear. Inspiring as usual G̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡D̶̲̥̅ work
Lovely…truly inspiring. Would start practising that
Dolapo I’ve missed your stories.I think i need to be here more often.This is a very lovely piece.God bless u dear friend!
this is sooooooooooooooo nice..please when are u going to finish it up?
WOW!
Keep it up
this is so good. i have learnt a lot today.
wow! this is super nice… Enjoyed every bit!
God just wants me to read this,am not a blogger…..this is really nice
This piece aptly describes me as Dayo’s wife. Hmmm… I’m just bored in my marriage. Sometimes I wish I never married and sometimes, I just want out…..
Lovely piece. Hope its not hint and heart story sha.
Really nice write up and a wake up call to many
Wow! This is really true. The little things matter so much. Really nice write up!
This is so, so inspiring. Food for thought!!!
This is a really good write up. I wish every couple can be like that, then there will be happier families and the world will be a better place to live in!
Lovely piece …felt down and low this morning but reading it lifted me up …hoping it will lift me up highest
wow SPEECHLESS…..
Am new on dis site was even reluctant to open it when it was sent to moi but am glad I did.Thank u.To d author u mite want to conþact me,I mite be of help to ur organization.
This is nice and so inspiring. I just learn something from this article: not all marriage sucks, it just depend on us to make it work. Couples should not let changes n circumstances around them affect their love life.. God bless u from this article.
This story gives me hope again.
Got tears running down my cheeks,had me thinking..
Hmmmmmm, speechless!!
I really loved this. Sooo natural and real liike I was watching it happen. Weldone Lowla Dee!
Inspiring story/ relationship is more of clear communication. Great job
I love it it toughing.
Thank God,i read it.is life changing story.
Amazing!
Waoh what an amazing story love it
lovely piece… I enjoyed it to bits. an eye opener it is..
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This is a great story A̶̲̥̅̊₪D̶̲̥̅̊ quite rare. L♥√ is everything
This is nice and romantic. I stay abroad and so go out with my husband every friday for dinner and sometimes movie. Young couples need to read this because it also prevent cheating. My sister got married last year and my younger sister soon, can I share this so they can read? Even better can I mail it to them and their spouses?
Regards
S.L
Good piece, thanks for this wonderful write up, u never knew how many homes and souls u have save by this write up, God bless u!
Wow,lovely,there came this point where I thought he was gonna go into a relationship with her you know.but the whole story changed into a great one.I mean,she is married infact beeeeen married.she has fun with her husband just like yesterday and not 82′ lol.well.lowla dee….this is short nd straight forward and great lesson(s) not just for married couples its for everyone.singles ,families and friends!!!!
@slimmyn yes of course you can share this piece with as many people as possible .
bbes…i lov it so much…its soo inspiring kip up boo…
This is encouraging and it must involved the two partner before it can be effected. But in a situation where your Spouse is not cooperating with such Fun, what should you do?
Thanks! Will do.
Hello guys! Thanks for all the comments. This story has gone viral with people just copying and pasting without giving due credit. Please if you find any of such bring it to our notice. God Bless you all. Keep being inspired!
I’ll like to get more inspirationals
Waoooh. Wat a g r8 pixes. Keep it up
Wow! I’m highly inspire by this True Life changing story.It has actually lifted my heart to love again! Kudos to you!!!
this is a nice piece
whether it’s hint & heart or not, no body ‘ll read this & ‘ll not learn. it’s what’s happening in most marriage. little thing goes a long way. Not untill when u’v money dt U can let ur spouse feel ur presence in his/her life. It’s a nice piece. pls, keep it up.
Beautiful piece:-) Please keep up the good work.
So inspiring! Kip it up
Thank you so much.
This IS a really nice piece just shows that marriage/relationships shud be fun..pay attention to what our other partners like..lovely piece I must say again..
Beautiful story. I read it here first two days back. Do read ‘How Ese got his groove back’ on http://www.efemenaoreoluwa.blogspot.com.
Great job Lowla Dee!
Guys! Did you read that? “When you ignore little things, they are the little pieces of rocks that build up to become a mountain you can’t easily break down.”
These are little thgs that made both of you chose each other. It should not be ignored! Be creative. We can all be romantic… It is an art.
Lowladee, good you did the email thing. *winking*
Thank you for writing such an inspiring story. I would love to include this story in the next issue of Skills magazine I with your permission. I sent an you an email concerning this request and am eagerly awaiting your response.
Amazing job on all your stories.
Loved and enjoyed every bit of this story. Indeed Iil fings are lil fings but the seriousness of lil fings can be of great value.
This is inspiring! At least even though I am not married, I have something to hold on to!
I absolutely enjoyed this piece
Like miz_lemie I’m not married but I definitely have something to hold on to